“Dangerous,” They Said — But This Is How My Pitbull Loves Our Baby
Before we left the hospital, one of the doctors asked if we had pets.
“Yes,” I said. “A cat and a dog.”
“What kind of dog?”
“A blue nose Pitbull,” I replied.
She looked at me and said, “Then don’t let that dog near your baby.”
I stayed quiet. Not because I agreed, but because I knew she hadn’t met our dog.
She hadn’t seen the way he’d rested his head on my belly during pregnancy, listening to every kick, guarding me during sleepless nights.
And now, this—my newborn sleeping peacefully in the arms of the very dog they warned me about. A silent embrace. A trust you can’t teach. A love you don’t have to explain.
The day we brought our baby home, I was nervous—but not scared. Lilo, our Pitbull, had waited months for this moment. His excitement was quiet, careful, and full of awe.
He didn’t bark or jump. He simply lay near the bassinet, head tilted, ears listening. Over the next few days, he became a quiet guardian—rushing to the crib at every cry, wagging his tail gently whenever the baby smiled.
One morning, I walked into the room and found this: my baby sound asleep, swaddled in Lilo’s arms. No one placed them there. No one taught him to cuddle like that. He just knew.
And that was when I realized: love like this can’t be trained. It’s felt.
Every moment since then, Lilo has been my child’s best protector and softest pillow. He doesn’t just tolerate our son—he lives for him. He follows him, shadows him, and sometimes whines if he’s not in the same room.
People still cross the street when we walk by.
Strangers still judge the scars on Lilo’s breed.
But those people haven’t seen the way he nudges the baby’s bottle when it falls. They haven’t seen the way he sighs when the baby laughs. They haven’t seen him curl into our son during naps like he’s guarding the world.
I don’t blame that doctor for her fear.
But I wish she could see this picture.
Because this isn’t danger.
This is devotion.